Obituaries

MIDDLEPORT/BUFFALO – A devoted teacher and animal lover, Judy A. Egner died on January 16, 2024, at her home in Buffalo, NY, at 84.

Judy taught thousands of middle school children science, social studies, and English for 34 years in the Buffalo Public School system. She was a caring and loving teacher who dedicated her time and energy to ensuring each student received a quality education.

Judy’s gentle disposition with her students carried over to her love of animals, especially her dog, Joey. After teaching, she spent time at home with her animals and growing a beautiful garden with bright and colorful flowers that was the envy of the neighborhood.

Selfless and quiet, Judy was a devoted Catholic. Her life reflected simplicity and the spirit of St. Francis of Assisi, who said, “Do few things but do them well; simple joys are holy.”

Judy was born on January 12, 1940. A Mass of Christian burial will be held on April 19, 2024, at 10 a.m. at St. Stephens Roman Catholic Church, 21 Vernon Avenue, Middleport, NY, 14105.

Judy’s family entrusted her care to Mitchell Family Funeral, please visit mitchellfamilyfuneralhomes.com

BUCKINGHAM, QUEBEC- BEANS Madore (a.k.a. Jean-Raymond) born in Buckingham, Quebec, Canada passed away at his home on February 11^th 2024 surrounded by his family. Pre-deceased by his parents Helen Murphy, Raymond Madore and Sister Dianne. He leaves behind his sweet Chickie/Fiancee Holly Moore, sisters/brother Lynda (Raymond), Gaetan (Rollande),  Suzanne (Denis), Monique (Michel) and Helene. Niece Tania, nephews; Frank, Mathieu, Vincent, Sebastien, Guillaume and Claude.  He also leaves behind his American family to only name a few; Dick Menke, Kenneth and Sheila Murphy, John and Charmaine O’Keefe, Bob and Kim Banks. Beans worked for Chuck Full O’ Nuts, Maidstone Coffee, Han-Tek and American Packaging. He then became owner and operator of Cool Beans Services, Madore’s Custom Cycle Garage, Beans Trucking for which he was very successful at. He will be tremendously missed by his family and so many friends. A special Thank You to Doctors McHugh, Gaden and their teams for the good care provided to Beans. A celebration of life will be held at the Sainte Rose-de-Lima church in Gatineau, Quebec, Canada, on Friday May 17 2024 at 11:00am, where he will be laid to rest with his parents and sister. A celebration of life will also be held in Brockport at a later date.

EAST ROCHESTER- Veronica (Bonnie) M LaMachia, age 93, formerly of East Rochester, entered into eternal rest on March 16, 2024 at home, with the presence of her loving and compassionate granddaughter and caregiver Sarah Hofstra as well as family members. She was born March 29, 1930 the daughter of the late Thomas and Helen E. (Farron) Craig.

In addition to her parents, she was predeceased by her husband, Joe LaMachia, her son Jeffrey Hofstra, a sister Helen Cowd, brothers Thomas and James Craig.

She is survived by her sons Donald Hofstra, Ken (Kim) Hofstra, Brian (Michelle) Hofstra and Robert (Holly) Hofstra, several grandchildren, great-grandchildren and great-great grandchildren as well as several nieces, nephews and cousins. She is also survived by David Craig, Arizona.

Bonnie enjoyed several years at SUNY Brockport’s Faculty Dining Hall as well as golfing several states with her husband, Joe, family and friends.

A short service will be held at 11:00am, March 23, 2024, at Harloff Funeral Home, 803 South Washington Street, East Rochester, NY 14445. A burial will follow at White Haven Memorial Park, 210 Marsh Road, Pittsford, NY 14534. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to Hospice of Orleans, 14080 NY-31, Albion NY 14411.

HOLLEY – Patrice Delia Kopitzki, 73, passed away March 17, 2024, at Hildebrant Hospice Care Center. Pat was born December 9, 1950, in Brockport and had lived in Holley for over 38 years.

Pat took great pride in her gardening skills, and you could see her love of gardening on display at Oak Ridge Apartments. Pat loved all animals and was known to care for a hurt bird or frog. She also was a NASCAR fan and loved her cat “Baby Kitty.”

Pat was predeceased by her great-grandson, Chase Myers; and sisters, Deborah and Wendy.

Pat is survived by her husband, Robert; daughters, Jenn Myers and Susie Kopitzki; the love of her life was her grandchildren who referred to her as Mema, Kalena (Brandon) Garbacz, Garrett (Katie) Myers, Haylee Myers and Isla Willemsen; great-grandchildren, Brantley and Maverick Myers.

Pat’s family will receive friends at the Christopher Mitchell funeral Home, 16650 State Route 31, Holley, on Tuesday, March 26, from 4 to 6 p.m. only. Interment will be in Hillside Cemetery.

Memorials may be made to Verona Street Animal Society at vsas.org.

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May 4, 1962 — March 15, 2024

HAMLIN – Robin (Rushton) Whitaker, 61, passed away unexpectedly at home, March 15, 2024. Robin was born May 4, 1962, in Chicago, a daughter of the late Raymond and Joan (Christie) Rushton.

She was a 1980 graduate of Holley High School. Robin was retired, but enjoyed thrifting, buying, and selling antiques, gardening, music, going to concerts and Civil War history. She loved all animals, especially her dogs.

Robin was predeceased by her parents; brother, James Rushton; and mother-in-law, Peggy Whitaker.

Robin is survived by her loving husband of 28 years, Gordy; stepchildren, Jolene (Joe) Faulisi and T.R. Gullo; grandchildren, Reese, Kayden and Winnie; siblings, Vicky Gutheil, Chris (Angie) Rushton, Val (Russell) Olles and Rhonda (Custy Panetta) Rushton; special cousin, David (Kate) Rushton of UK; and canine companion, Dolly.

She is also survived by beloved nieces, nephews, cousins, many friends, and her family at The Carriage Place Crafts & Antiques CO-OP.

Robin’s family will receive friends at the Christopher Mitchell Funeral Home, 16650 State Route 31, Holley, on Monday March 25, from 4 to 7 p.m., followed by a Celebration of Robin’s life at 7. Memorials may be made in memory of Robin to Rescued-Treasures.com.

To share a special memory of Robin, please visit: mitchellfamilyfuneralhomes.com.

MIDDLEPORT – Jeffrey F. “Redneck” Sidebottom, 61, of Middleport, NY, entered into rest on Thursday, March 14, 2024 at the Niagara Hospice, Lockport, NY.

Born on February 15, 1963, in Lockport, NY, he was the son of the late Leonard Sidebottom and Doris (Freer) Yingling.

He grew up in Middleport, NY and was a life-long mechanic, working for area garages. He liked spending time with his family and friends and caring for his beloved dog, Midget.

Jeffrey is survived by his four children, Jeffrey Kirk Sidebottom, Michael Sidebottom, Nathan Sidebottom and Ashley; six grandchildren; four siblings, Eric (Ces) Sidebottom, Dennis (Laurie) Sidebottom, Kim Deyarmin and Pamela (Mark) Fearby; and many nieces and nephews and great-nieces and nephews and the love of his life, Tonia Young.

Besides his parents, Jeffrey is predeceased by his son, Cody; a brother-in-law, Bruce Deyarmin; and his step-father, Robert Yingling.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Jeffrey’s name to Niagara Hospice,  4675 Sunset Dr, Lockport, NY 14094

Relatives and friends may attend his Celebration of Life at the Community Fellowship Church Hall, 3151 Johnson Creek Rd, Middleport, NY 14105 on Saturday, March 23, 2024 at 11:00 AM with the Pastor Joseph Szalay III officiating.

Arrangements were entrusted to the Bogan & Tuttle Funeral Home, 226 Pearl St. Medina, NY 14103.

Please light a candle or share a memory of Redneck at www.bogantuttlefunerals.com.

HOLLEY – Nicole Lynn Poquette, passed away tragically in a car accident on March 11, 2024 in South Carolina where she was residing. She was born September 14, 1982 to Mary Verhagen Carpenter and George Poquette in Brockport.

Nicole (Nic) was a fearless, strong woman. Among her favorite pastimes were spending time with her daughter (and best friend) and cuddling on the couch with her son and dogs. Nic was amazing at arranging any kind of get-together with anyone who wanted to participate. She could have a party put together with a moment’s notice. She was happiest outside, either on the water or on a beach in the sun or working in her gardens. She also cherished the time she was able to spend in Puerto Rico with her love, Franky and his family.

Nic was a bit wild and outspoken – you never had to wonder what she really thought (often that your food wasn’t seasoned enough) and she was truly gifted at making up a good story. She will always be remembered by her mom for her beautiful smile. Her big brother Mike (Ken) was like a best friend and father-figure and she had a special twin-like bond with her younger sister Priscilla who she enjoyed going for long walks and bike rides with.

Nicole is survived by her children, Mariah Weitz and Kyler Weitz; the love of her life, Francisco (Franky) Garcia, her parents Mary (Russell) Carpenter and George Poquette; siblings Kenneth (Beth) Verhagen, Daniel (Carolyn) Benedict, Michelle (Troy) Kingdollar, Priscilla (Michael) Church and Daniel (Emily) Carpenter, several nieces, nephews, aunts, uncles & cousins.

Nicole was an amazing spirit who made an impact on everyone she met and will be missed by all who knew her.

Nicole’s family will receive friends at the Christopher Mitchell Funeral Homes 16650 State Route 31, Holley on Thursday March 21, from 4:00-6:00, followed by her Memorial Service at 6:00. Immediately following the service, there will be a celebration of Nicole at the VFW in Holley. It will open at 6:00.

In lieu of flowers, donations can be made for the benefit of Nicole’s kids to the care of Ken Verhagen, 232 Linwood Ave, Albion.

To share a special memory of Nicole, please visit: mitchellfamilyfuneralhomes.com

ALBION- Mark Lawrence Powley, age 60, passed away at his home on February 29, 2024, in Albion, New York. Mark was born on April 16, 1963, in Albion to Terry and Jane Powley.

Mark was a charismatic man of many talents and passions. A supportive friend and generous family man, Mark’s spirit and creativity were evident in everything he did. His legacy will forever be engraved in the hearts of all those who have known him. Passionate about classic cars, Mark owned several, including Camaros and Corvettes. He enjoyed listening to classic rock on his vinyl collection and also loved riding his John Deere Tractor.

Mark was a member of the Ceramic Society and the Glen Regional Corvette Club, where he shared his expertise and enthusiasm. His professional life was equally impressive. For over 36 years, he worked at Corning Incorporated, where his innovative spirit thrived. He proudly developed 23 patents, a testament to his creative genius. This passion for innovation was rooted in his education, having graduated from Albion High School in 1981 and from Cortland State in 1985 with dual degrees in Gemology and Geology. His thirst for knowledge led him to study glass and ceramics at Alfred University, further fueling his inventive mind.

Mark is survived by his children, Karen (Dan) Miller, Jason (Gabriella) Miller, and Angela (Tom Scolaro) Busco; his grandchildren, Tanner, Jared, Jason, Kaylee, Gabriel, Domenico, and Alessandria; brothers, Donald (Michele) Powley and Jason Powley; He will also be fondly remembered by his nephew, Michael Powley and nieces Amanda, Ruth, and Hope Powley. Mark was preceded in death by his loving parents, Terry and Jane (Balfour) Powley.

All services for Mark will be private.

Mark’s family entrusted his care to Haughey Funeral Home, Inc. www.haugheyfuneralhome.com

MEDINA – Ronald E. “Ron” Baubie, 77, of Medina, NY, entered into rest on Monday, March 11, 2024, at the Batavia VA Medical Center.

Born on August 6, 1946, in Medina, NY, he was the son of the late Stanley J. and Clara (Thompson) Baubie.

Ron attended Medina High School and went on to receive a Drafting Degree. He was drafted into the U.S. Army during the Vietnam War. On returning home, he worked as a Dietician at the Medina Memorial Hospital until his retirement. He was a member of the American Legion Butts -Clark Post 204 and the Veterans of Foreign Wars Lincoln Post 1483. In his spare time, Ron enjoyed drawing, playing cards, and watching the Buffalo Bills play.

Ron is survived by his niece, Melissa (Mike) Clark of Waterport, NY, a great-niece, Annalee, and several cousins; he was known to many as “Uncle Ronnie.”

Relatives and friends may call on Friday, March 15 2024, from 4:00 PM-7:00 PM at the Bogan & Tuttle Funeral Home, 226 Pearl St. Medina, NY 14103. A private service and burial will be held at the convenience of the family.

Instead of flowers, memorials may be made in Ron’s name to the VA WNY Healthcare System, c/o CDCO, 222 Richmond Ave, Batavia, NY 14020.

Please light a candle or share a memory of Ron at www.bogantuttlefunerals.com

CARLTON – In loving memory of Garland Kimball Miller, who, at the venerable age of 98, departed this life on the 10th of March 2024. Born to the late Berenice and Gerald Miller on the 2nd day of January 1926 in Carlton, New York, he lived a life marked by service, dedication, and the joy of simple pleasures.

Garland answered the call of duty when drafted into the Army and served with honor from 1942 to 1944. His bravery in the face of adversity during World War II in both the Pacific and Atlantic theaters shall forever be remembered.

Upon returning to civilian life, Garland pursued a career as a truck driver and mechanic. Later in life he retired after many years of commendable service with the Albion New York State Department of Transportation as head mechanic. His work ethic and commitment to his profession inspired all who knew him.

Garland found solace and delight in the quiet pursuit of puzzle-solving, earning recognition for completing one of the world’s largest puzzles. His hobbies also included attending auctions, maintaining his property, collecting local history artifacts and bird & squirrel watching. He was a pillar in his community, actively participated in the American Legion, the Orleans Genealogy Society, the WNY Steam Show Association, and several Railroad Associations.

He leaves behind a legacy of love and cherished memories for his remaining sibling, Darleene Johnson; children, Cheryl McCarthy, (d. James), Lynn Miller and his wife Elaine, and Terry Miller and his wife Gina; his grandchildren, Laura, Erin and Heather McCarthy, Chad & Corey Miller, Misty Woodlee (John) and several great-grandchildren, along with numerous nieces, nephews, extended family members and close friends. Also, he touched the hearts of his cherished health care girls, Terry Condoluci, Felicia Snook, Della Fisher, and Jamie Underwood.

Garland was predeceased by his beloved life companion, Mary Roth, and his brother, Reed Miller; his sisters, Leona Leofsky and Geraldine Schuck; and grandson, Duane Miller.

The family will receive friends at the Christopher Mitchell Funeral Homes in Albion on Friday, March 15, from 4 to 7 p.m. where his Celebration of Life Service will be at 7 p.m. Military Honors will follow his service. Our hearts are heavy, but we are comforted knowing Garland rests in eternal peace and that his legacy endures through the lives he touched. The family suggests that those wishing to express sympathy consider donating to PAWS of Albion, NY, in Garland’s memory.

To share a memory of Garland, visit www.mitchellfamilyfuneralhomes.com.

MEDINA- Linda P. Smith, of Medina, passed away on Sunday, March 10, 2024 surrounded by her loving family.
Born on March 8, 1946 in Medina, she was a daughter of the late Howard and Ida (Allen) Gardner. Linda grew up in Medina and graduated from Medina High School in 1964. On July 25, 1964, she married George W. Smith and the couple raised a family of three children. Having studied at the Sherwood School of Music, Linda was an exceptional pianist. She enjoyed playing bingo, going to the casino and traveling with her husband to Florida. A wonderful cook, she loved cooking and entertaining for the holidays. During her retirement, Linda’s love of cooking led her to build and operate The Old Mill Run Restaurant in Medina, where she was best known for her macaroni and potato salad. Linda especially loved spending time with her family, who will miss her dearly.
In addition to her parents she was predeceased by her husband, George on February 28, 2018; and her brother, James (June) Gardner.
Linda is survived by her three children, David (Karla) Smith, Karen (Paul) Curtin and Robert (Karen) Smith; eight grandchildren, Kristen (Matt) Pelkey, Zachery (Lana) Curtin, Kalie (Jake) Zelazny, Cameron Smith, Kyle Smith, Alex Smith, Anthony Brown and Abigail Brown; four great-grandchildren, Sean and Caroline Pelkey, Arilyn and Lila Zelazny; sister, Donna (Phil) Miller; sister in-law, Joanne (James) Harley; and several nieces, nephews and cousins.
There will be no prior calling hours. A graveside committal service will be held in Millville Cemetery at the convenience of the family. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations in memory of Linda may be made to the Knights-Kaderli Memorial Fund, PO Box 684, Medina, NY 14103 or to Hospice of Orleans at www.hospiceoforleans.org. Arrangements are in the care of Cooper Funeral Home, 215 W. Center St., Medina. Share condolences at www.cooperfuneralhome.com.

KENT- Marjorie “Midge” Warren, age 84, died March 10, 2024 in her daughter’s home lovingly surrounded by her family. She was born June 4, 1939 in Eagle Harbor to Alva and Monica Bates and was a life-long resident of this area.

Midge was a self-employed beautician for many years and also worked as a secretary for the Kendall School District. She was a member of the Eagle Harbor United Methodist Church, and was also an Ombudsman and Patient Advocate at The Village of Orleans. Midge also learned signed language which she taught privately in the community and she also taught line dancing. Midge volunteered with the Orleans County Veteran Transport Service as a driver and when nothing else was going on, she enjoyed her coffee time with her girlfriends. Mrs. Warren was predeceased by her parents and her husband Charlie.

She is survived by her son: David (Peggy) Warren of Kent, her daughters: Cathy (David) Magowan of Kent, Connie (Christine) Warren of VA, her sister: Joan Wraight of Barre Center, her grandchildren: David (Evelyn) Warren, Tricia Warren, Torrie (John) Kramer and her great grandchildren: Hailey and Charles.

The family will receive friends at the Eagle Harbor Methodist Church, Eagle Harbor Methodist c/o Michelle Howard 2364 Lake Road Hamlin, NY 14464, FRIDAY MARCH 22, 2024 from 1-3 immediately followed by her Memorial Service beginning at 3 pm. Private interment at the convenience of the family will be held in West Kendall Cemetery.

In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to the church at Eagle Harbor Methodist, c/o Michelle Howard at 2364 Lake Road, Hamlin, NY 14464 or the American Cancer Society, 1120 Goodman St. S., Rochester, NY 14620. Midge’s arrangements have been entrusted to the Christopher Mitchell Funeral Homes of Albion. To share a special memory of Midge, please visit: www.mitchellfamilyfuneralhomes.com.

ROYALTON – Harry A. Houghtling, age 75, died March 9, 2024 in his home following a brief illness.  He was born September 30, 1948 in Niagara Falls to Richard and Margaret (Burrows) Houghtling and had lived in this area all of his life.

Harry was United States Army Veteran of the Vietnam War where he served as a gunner on a helicopter.  H was Vice President of the Vietnam Veterans of Niagara County, retired as a Tinsmith from General Motors, enjoyed hunting and loved the outdoors.

He had two special loves in his life which were his cats: Mikey and his “princess” Sadie.

Mr. Houghtling was predeceased two sisters, Judy and Donna, and a brother, Kenny.

He is survived by his wife, Cheryl; his sons, Heath and Joshua Houghtling, Matthew and Brett Winters; his brothers, Gary and Ray (Virginia) Houghtling; 3 grandchildren, Emily, Warren and Sage; as well as several nieces and nephews.

There will be no calling hours.  A private service and interment will be held in WNY National Cemetery at the convenience of the family. In lieu of flowers memorials may be made to: The Wounded Warriors Project, 600 River Ave., Unit 400, Pittsburgh, PA 15212.

Harry’s arrangements have been entrusted to the Bates, Wallace & Heath Funeral Home of Middleport.

To share a special memory of Harry, please visit: www.mitchellfamilyfuneralhomes.com.

WATERPORT – Michael E. Budynski, age 74, passed away March 8, 2024 at the Martin Linsin Residence following a long illness. He was born February 5, 1950, in Albion, a son of the late Earl and Laura (Kokoszka) Budynski and had lived in this area all of his life.

Mike graduated from Albion High School in 1968. He and his late brother Gary, followed in their father and uncle’s paths, working on the family dairy farm that their grandfather started. Mike enjoyed the outdoors, music and woodworking.

He is survived by his sister Linda (Rodney) Daniels and many loving cousins and friends.

The family will receive friends at the Christopher Mitchell Funeral Homes, 21 West Ave. Albion on Wednesday March 13th from 12 p.m. to 1 p.m. where his funeral service will be at  1 p.m. Burial will follow in Mt. Albion Cemetery. Memorials may be made to Hospice of Orleans, 14084 Rte. 31, Albion NY 14411 or to the Carlton Fire Company, 14341 Waterport Carlton Rd. Albion NY 14411.

To share a memory of Mike, visit www.mitchellfamilyfuneralhomes.com.

Jamie L. Blanchet, 48, of Tampa, FL, entered into eternal rest on January 12, 2024 following a brief illness.

Born June 22, 1975 in Alexandria, VA, she was the beloved daughter of Robert and Peggy (Rice) Blanchet.

Jamie was born and raised in Virginia and moved to the Tampa area in 1998. There she worked as an emergency veterinary nurse for many years. Jamie had many certifications in her field and was always learning new techniques to care for her patients. Jamie so enjoyed helping whatever animal came through the doors, whether it was dogs, cats, owls, birds, eagles, raccoons, squirrels or something else. Jamie was famous for saying, “It’s fine.” She helped them all and was very skilled in her work. She also enjoyed volunteering in wildlife rehabilitation and enjoyed crafts and jigsaw puzzles in her spare time.

Left to cherish her memory are her parents, Robert and Peggy Blanchet of Woodbridge, VA; brother, Jason Blanchet of Woodbridge, VA; aunts and uncles, Robert Rice of Medina, NY, Sue (Robert) Cunningham of Clinton, CT, Linda Blanchet of Batavia, NY and Richard (Sue) Blanchet of Belleville, IL; and numerous cousins and extended family.

She was predeceased by maternal grandparents, Leonard and Lucille Rice; paternal grandparents, Dr. Harvey J. (Florence) Blanchet; and her uncle, Dr. Harvey J. Blanchet III of Batavia.

Private interment will be in Sacred Heart Cemetery, Medina. Arrangements are in the care of Cooper Funeral Home, 215 W. Center St., Medina. Share condolences at www.cooperfuneralhome.com.

MEDINA – Blaine R. Poler, 82, of Medina, passed away peacefully on Thursday, March 7, 2024. A son of the late Blair W. and Alethe A. (Fearby) Poler, he was born May 8, 1941 in Medina.

Mr. Poler graduated from Medina High School in 1959. Shortly after, he enlisted in the U.S. Air Force serving from 1959-1966. Early on, Mr. Poler worked for Bausch & Lomb and lastly for Eastman-Kodak, retiring in 1991.

An avid outdoorsman, he had a passion for hunting, both gun and archery. Mr. Poler travelled extensively on hunting excursions, notably to Alaska. In his later years, he enjoyed daily coffee and talks with his daughter, Nickie, and especially loved spending time with his granddaughter, Aly.

In addition to his parents, he was predeceased by his brother, Karl Poler.

Left to cherish his memory are his children, Shannon (Martine) Greek of Montreal, QC, Darwin Poler, Eric (Kerry) Poler both of Medina; Chad (Amy) Bronson of FL and Nickie (Nick) Poler of Albion; grandchildren, Alyson Snow, Jacob Girardo, Maxim and Stella Poler, and Eden Bronson and Gavin Bronson; siblings, Larry (late Ann) Poler, Jay Poler and Susan (Andrew) Johnson; also several nieces and nephews.

Calling hours will be held on Friday, March 15 from 3 to 6 p.m. followed by full military honors at 6 p.m. at Cooper Funeral Home, 215 W. Center St., Medina. Future interment will be in the WNY National Cemetery, Pembroke.

Memorial donations may be made to the Alzheimer’s Association of WNY, www.alz.org/wny. Share condolences and memories at www.cooperfuneralhome.com.

KENT — Capt. William F. Ashmore of Kent, NY passed away just one week of shy his 87th birthday, joining his wife Clarissa “Sissy” Ashmore. He is survived by his daughter Debbie Ashmore, son-in-law Pete Matuskevich, son Matthew Ashmore, daughter-in-law Chris Ashmore, son Ricky Ashmore, and only granddaughter Amanda Matuskevich.

Born in Ludowici, GA in 1937, he led a life of adventure. He was a policeman, an electrician, business owner, farmer, coon dog hunter, horse lover and a fisherman. It was his time at the helm of Just 4 Fun charters that he will be most remembered for. Those that went out on Capt. Bill’s boat never came home empty handed nor without a few stories about ol’ Bill.

His family will host a Celebration of Life in the Spring at a later time to be announced, at his “office” on Lake Ontario, where they will tell a few tales and perhaps catch a few fish.

Arrangements were entrusted to the Bogan & Tuttle Funeral Home, 226 Pearl St. Medina, NY 14103.

Please light a candle or share a memory of Capt. William at www.bogantuttlefunerals.com

ALBION- James Martin O’Brien passed from this world to the next on March 5, 2024. He was 82 years young.

James – or Jim or Jimmy or Uncle Jimmy or Coach or Dad or Papa – is survived by his loving wife of over sixty years, Sandy. Together they had two children and four grandchildren and have a great grandchild on the way.

Sandy and Jimmy met as teenagers and married soon thereafter. They went through life as best friends, as all the best marriages do. From family to baseball, from easy times to the not so easy times, from a house full of noise to a house of relative silence, it was always Sandy and her beloved Jimmy. Jimmy and his beloved Sandy. For over 63 years they stood side by side as partners, taking on the world one day at a time. Now Sandy will move forward alone, but we know her beloved Jimmy will always be with her in spirit. In the future, should Sandy ever stumble and fall, and wonder whether she can get up again, she will think of him. And we know he will be watching, smiling, and cheering her on.

The loss Sandy feels today is immeasurable, as anyone in this position all too knowingly understands. To love someone as Sandy loved Jimmy is to know that one day, no matter how hard you try, your heart will be forever broken and never heal. This is the painful price we pay on earth to experience the privilege of true love. Jimmy was Sandy’s true love. And Sandy was Jimmy’s. And what a miraculous gift that was for both.

James’ first child was his daughter Kim. Kim graduated college and graduate school with degrees in speech pathology.  She married Kirk Narburgh in 1989 and together, with lots of love and support from Papa, they raised two, now adult, but always amazing, daughters Sarah (Corey) Burrows of Boston, Massachusetts, and Doctor Hannah (Mitch) Dunay of Hampstead, North Carolina. Sarah will miss her Ploppy, a name whose origin is a now mystery to everyone but Sarah. Sarah’s heart will forever have a missing piece. Doctor Hannah and Mitch are expecting a baby girl in May of this year. It breaks our collective hearts that Papa will never hold his great granddaughter – and of course teach her how to play tricks on people at the mall.

James’ second child was his son Mark of Tampa, Florida. Mark graduated from college and law school and lives in Tampa, Florida where he is an attorney. Mark married his wife Katie in 2009 and together they have two sons, Finn James (12) (named after his Papa) and Buckley (10). To Finn and Buck, Papa was nothing more than a big kid, always good for a toss in the pool or a pillow fight on the couch. Like Sarah and Hannah, both O’Brien boys will miss their Papa dearly.

James is survived by his brother David O’Brien of Ripley, New York and his sister Catherine O’Brien who resides in Albion. James and David were the best of friends, as only brothers who saw a little too much a little too soon can be. It was amazing to watch them say so little but do so much for each other for over 80 years.

James lived a life worth celebrating. And celebrate it we shall. Born on September 11, in the year 1941, he hated that evil men did evil things on the day of his birth and during his birth year. James was the opposite of those men. He was decent, kind, and forever in your corner. Those who knew him, knew him to be quick with a wry smile but short on conversation. But those who really knew him, knew that his wry smile would fast become a jolly laugh and that the guy would never really shut up. We all loved that about him.

James loved sports, in particular baseball. He loved watching the Yankees on WPIX Channel 11 (“Holy Cow!”) and later the YES Network. While Dad loved the Yankees, he secretly rooted for the Rays because Mark did. He loved collecting baseball cards with Mark. And he spent hours tracing his (and others’) roots through his love of genealogy. He loved his yearly trips to Myrtle Beach with family and friends. He loved a donut with the gang at Timmy’s. He loved beef on ‘weck (especially at the long since closed Checkerboard of Batavia). He loved playing cards with Uncle Kerm, Aunt Maryellen, and later Rose. He loved beating Smitty on the baseball diamond. He loved telling us old stories about Mort, about Chuck, about his many brothers-in-law, especially our Uncle Jerry (who affectionately called James “The Irishman”), and about a whole bunch of other characters from his past who just like him are gone too soon.

Jimmy loved long Sunday afternoon drives with Sandy and her mother, and later simply Sandy. Papa loved nothing more than beating Kirk at shuffleboard and Katie at mini golf. And was there anything better than hide and seek at Mount Albion Cemetery with Sarah, Hannah, Finn, and Buck? Nope, but that was nothing more than a rhetorical question (it’s an Albion thing – Google it). The best way to sum up Papa is that if a member of his family loved something, he would find a way to love it, too.

Jim, as he was known during the work week (and for Jim the work week was Monday through Saturday, resting only for Catholic Mass on Sundays), served as a mail carrier for the United States Postal Service for over 40 years. But his first job, he often told us, was not at the post office but instead at the old Lipton’s plant in Albion packing soup cans in an assembly line. Given an opportunity to get outside and become a mail carrier at age 18, he switched gears and began an important part of his life. Far beyond putting in an honest day’s work for an honest day’s pay, Jim earned both health care and stability for his family. Always one to work overtime on his day off to help his co-workers, as their union representative Jim also stood up for his fellow mail carriers when a wrong needed righting. And delivering the mail was more than just depositing letters into a mailbox for him. Each day Jim was part confidant, part therapist, and one hundred percent friend to every person on his route. Yes, even the dogs. For those in their senior years Jim would “check in”, like a doctor once made house calls, especially for those without close family in town. In essence, Jim was his route’s special caretaker. He looked after the occupants of each house and apartment, in the way that was individually needed at that moment, while expecting nothing in return.

Uncle Jimmy, as he was known to his extended family, was a fixture at Gaylord family gatherings. While most of the uncles, and some of the aunts, hovered near the Genesee Cream Ale keg, Uncle Jimmy was always a man in constant motion, playing with the children or just helping someone do something that needed doing. Sandy was the youngest of ten children, so many of their nieces and nephews were close in age to Uncle Jimmy. As time moved forward and they began to lose their mothers and fathers, it was always Uncle Jimmy who stood quietly by their side before, during, and after their loss. Uncle Jimmy may not have always had the right words, but he always did the right thing.

Uncle Jimmy was also “Coach” to so many. At least once a year, while at a mall or restaurant outside of Albion, a stranger would approach him with a big smile and exclaim, “Hello Coach!” The old ball coach in him would reach back into time long ago and respond, “I can recognize your face, but you are going to have to help me with your name.” And there, while standing in a random store or burger joint, one man would tell an older man what an inspiration he was to him as a child. Coach did not just teach kids the right way to play baseball, he taught them the right way to live life. It should be noted that at one point in Coach’s life he managed three different baseball teams: the Knights of Columbus Little League team, the Knights of Columbus Babe Ruth team, and his beloved American Legion team. The latter played in the New York State championship game at the Baseball Hall of Fame in Cooperstown, New York. (An aside: Coach always said with a sly smile that both Kim and Mark mishandled a few ground balls that touched their gloves back in the day. He was correct of course. If the ball touched their mitts, they should have had ‘em.)

Sandy’s beloved husband was taken from this world too soon. Though he rarely drank alcohol, never smoked a day in his life, exercised daily, and ate well, he contracted the rare disease Guillain-Barré Syndrome shortly after the first of the year. His auto immune system attacked his nervous system rendering his last days extremely difficult. Despite trying his hardest in the Intensive Care Unit of Strong Memorial Hospital for nearly eight weeks, he could not beat this foe. In the end, with family at his side, and at peace, he closed his eyes, and went quietly to God. Our sadness runs deep. And we are forever changed.

However, when you see us, we ask that your wonderful memories of this kind and gentle man be greater than your grief. We promise you this is what he would want. Whether to you he was James, Jim, Jimmy, Uncle Jimmy, or Coach, for us he was and always will be James Martin O’Brien, a man amongst men, in a world increasingly lacking in them.

For 82 years we were all very lucky to have him in our lives, and now heaven is too.

Go n-éiri an bóther leat.

Go raibh an ghaoth go brách ag do chúl.

Go lonrai an ghrian go te ar d’aghaidh.

Until we meet again Papa.

Calling hours will be held at Christopher Mitchell Funeral Home in Albion, New York from 4:00 pm to 7:00 pm on Friday, March 8, 2024.

A Mass of Christian Burial will be held at Holy Family Catholic Church (formerly Saint Joseph’s Catholic Church) in Albion, New York at 11:00 am on Saturday, March 9, 2024.

A proper Irish Wake will be held immediately following the funeral at a location to be determined (check this website for an update later in the week for the location). Please join us for food and drink and share your stories about James with his family and friends.

In lieu of flowers, memorials in James’ name may be made to either the Francis House of Syracuse, New York (francishouseny.org) or the Ryan Callahan Foundation (ryancallahanfoundation.org). Both charitable organizations are nonprofit, close to our family’s heart, and may be found online.